Lokamom
10:49 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
What do confusion mean to you in your period of motherhood? Share it with us! →
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Lokamom
10:47 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
What are the different aspects about motherhood have you accepted so far? Let us talk more about it. →
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Lokamom
10:46 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
What were your struggles of first three months post child birth? Let us know! →
shubhamark
12:50 p.m. | Nov. 21, 2025
For me, the first two months were full of confusion and learning. I really struggled with understanding how and when to feed my baby. I didn’t know whether to follow the doctor’s advice or listen to the grandparents’ experience — both sounded right in their own way. I would constantly wonder whether I should wake my baby from deep sleep every two hours to feed or just let him rest.
Another big stress for me was trying to help my baby regain his birth weight after the initial weight loss. I used to worry so much about whether he was getting enough milk.
Looking back, I realise these are very common worries
Amrutha
11:28 p.m. | Nov. 26, 2025
First three months was a real rollercoaster. Happiness, confusion, anxiety, sleeplessness, on top of everything was the so called relatives' unnecessary advices and their words of experience... Weight loss in first 5 days is common for newborns, but I didn't have this knowledge back then, or maybe my brain had just stopped working. Doctors said, weight loss more than 10% is uncommon, it was due to lack of milk, which was the result of postpartum diet followed in many houses. moreover my son was also diagnosed with jaundice. But parents obviously believe in what ancestors said. Both of them sounds right in their own way, but the strugglers are new moms, their situation will be like stuck in between the scissors, and mine was nothing different.
Lokamom
4:37 p.m. | Dec. 23, 2025
@Amrutha and @Shubhamark I can totally relate to what you both are saying. A new article on baby weight gain is coming up. hope that helps. Also, there is an article on whom to listen during pregnancy elders or doctors?. Please go through that article as well. See if it makes sense. Thank you
Lokamom
10:44 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
What are the different comments you received from others while experiencing pregnancy? Share with us →
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Lokamom
10:43 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
Anyway, if you want to share how your partner helped or struggled during your time of labour or pregnancy, you can share it with us here and listen to what others are saying too! →
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Lokamom
10:38 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
Talk to us more about your emotional roller coaster and know what others are going through! →
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Lokamom
10:36 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
What are the different do’s and don’ts did you follow? Please share with us here →
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Lokamom
10:34 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
What are your thoughts on being a responsible carrier? See what other moms are discussing about it →
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Lokamom
10:32 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
Share with us different rituals you followed with or without the scientific knowledge and let us know if that helped! →
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Lokamom
10:32 a.m. | Nov. 4, 2025
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